Truth isn’t a club
While reading The Making of an Atheist I really started to think about what I’m going to call a “misapplied apologetic”. This is really just a nice way of describing “apologists” who beat people over the head with “truth”–it happens more than you think. It’s the sort of people that grab a hold of an idea, take it to be absolutely true (whether or not it is, though as far as they’re concerned, it is) and then proceed to tell everyone else how wrong they are. I suppose, like me, they forgot to read the end of 1 Peter 3:15. Two examples to illustrate what I mean; one of these examples is something of an in-house apologetic issue–the ‘YEC / Evolution’ debate. The other, is concerning a certain people group which the church has grossly mishandled.
I learned a long time ago that it wasn’t worth my time to get involved in a YEC debate (for those who don’t know, Young Earth Creationism, the view that God created the world in 6, 24 hour periods, as described in Genesis 1 and that the universe is only 6,000 — 10,000 years old). For the most part, there is an extreme lack of humility and an attitude of superiority that just shouldn’t be present in the life of a Christian. Even if what’s under discussion is an in house debate–people tend to look through the windows, as it were. People are going to notice the lack of humility and meekness. To ask a question, how many people get caught up on a YEC view of Scripture and dismiss Jesus as a result? I’m fairly certain that choosing not to believe in YEC will not affect anyone’s salvation, yet some groups insist on it–believe in YEC or otherwise you undermine the entire foundation of Christianity. One of the most common questions I come across is exactly this question: “Can I be a Christian and believe in evolution?” The answer, even though some of us don’t like to admit it, is yes. But to do so we would have to admit that we don’t know everything (remember Job 38:4? “Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth…”). People don’t ask why Christians hate science for no reason. Even if the perception was initially a falsehood, it’s quickly becoming reality. It’s extremely disheartening to me when some of us confuse the core message of the Gospel with these secondary issues. The result is confusing and only turns people off Jesus.
The other example I wanted to mention might make people uncomfortable–homosexuality. The church has severely mishandled the ‘homosexual issue,’ and while I agree that the lifestyle is sin, I don’t believe that gives anyone the “right” to club them over the head with “God’s word”. I came across a very good video by Ravi Zacharias and he handles this question exquisitely. Rather than immediately go to Leviticus or Romans, he creates a distinction between a homosexual lifestyle (which is what Scripture always refers to) and a specific sexual disposition. There is a humbleness and approachability in this treatment of homosexuality that should be exemplified by all Christians. Unfortunately, a lot of the time (some) Christians tend to immediately run to Leviticus or Romans and blurt out (perhaps without thinking) the evils of homosexuality. Yet at the same time we forget the evils of (heterosexual) lust, greed, envy and gluttony. Yes, the life style is a sin and we believe so out of love for people, but we have to approach this issue with prayerful, sensitive and reflective hearts. We really do need to be “little Christs” when approaching everyone.
I think this may have turned into something I wasn’t originally planning, but I’ve said it nonetheless. This is something that really grieves my heart, when Christians treat each other and others unChristlike. We really need to watch ourselves because it’s by our actions we’ll be judged.
As Nietzsche said: “I might believe in the Redeemer if His followers looked more Redeemed”.

It is true that Christians have often mistreated homosexuals as you say. However, I believe many have done so out of a lack of understanding what the true issue is behind it and how to approach it. I believe the church needs more people like Zacharias who can teach people how to react view how sin is affecting people instead of focusing on the sin they are dealing with.
I feel like I‘m in school again.. hehe!
Good job!
Yes, I agree. There is a big problem when it comes to knowing how to deal with certain things. I think this is both a failing on the part of leaders / teachers, and Christians in general, who don’t seem to pursue a deeper understanding of Scripture, or even themselves and others.
I think the “ickiness” factor also drives much of people’s response to homosexual behaviour.
Yes, very true.